Disciplinary action which most effectively with children when they are behaving properly? Methods to handle changes and appropriate for each age of the child.
Psychologist Susan Stiffelman will share tips from how to train for children.
Three elements of quality guidelines
Three factors make the child respond to your efforts when they are guiding the enthusiastic participation, closely, power and prestige apparent ability to handle failure can occur when we do what we not want.
A child must obey the instructions of the caregivers are the main sticking a long and reliable. One of the prerequisites to entice the good cooperation of the child is to ensure the relationship between you and them closely.
Susan Stiffelman talk that you can not underestimate the importance of strengthening the emotional link with the child because if they do not easily have tended to oppose and do not follow your request.
One other important factor in their training discipline for children is to make them understand that you are responsible to do so. Children easily dependence on anyone who lacks confidence and less powerful. If you settle with your child through all requirements made or try to convince them to allow you to make responsible, you will inadvertently become a weakness and frustration.
Control mood disappointed
Finally, it is essential to help young parents to control frustration can occur when we do these things really not very interesting. Children prefer to play as much as possible so as to stop playing games to exercise or go to sleep when everyone is finished, we will see depression. Parents who need to understand how to help children overcome the sense of frustration he better discipline to train them in ways not cause the anger or aggression.
When you have responsibility as a “captain” in the lives of children, help children find direction out of frustration and remain sticking close collaboration between parents and young children to easily absorb the guidance Methods and train you. Even when children do not want garbage or stop teaser small dogs, children will be easy to listen to when you calm and not far from leaving them.
Although many people equate “discipline” with “punishment”, but in fact, their training from the child is simply a face of love …
Children grow when the care of adults – those willing to help us understand what are the limits, to curb the burden of life and that is what exists along with others including the needs and desires of his.
Discipline that is given the structure, procedures, rituals and skills to help a child grow into an adult fun, independence and competence. Although many people equate “discipline” with “punishment”, but the fact their training from the child is simply an aspect of love.
For each age, method of teaching in private ways, discipline is not the same.
Period from 1-3 years
Avoid time out because that can cause anxiety and dirty, and you should make every effort to reflect the role of “captain” of the game drive the train. Than punishment and is against playful , you should consider whether you can avoid the action triggered easily lead to child behavior inadequate.
A child is hungry, tired easy to depraved. If children do something wrong, please describe it with short words as: “This is Kitty cats like to fondle, my baby “, and encouragement, smile when you do response Note: “Mom liked the way you play quietly with Kitty … and it like the your behaviour
Period from 4-7 years old
You should take advantage of family meetings to establish procedures to do and looking forward to the family. You can find a job assignment for children as food for fish, scanning or sorting laundry yard to help them improve the sense of responsibility.
Addition to focusing on the bad behavior analysis with long or punishment, forcing your child to do something right to redeem failure. Tell children a sincere feeling of your first child’s behavior as: “Mother can not tell the children understand that parents have seen how less stressful when parents go to work and found the child did complete all homework. Thank you your baby! “.
Period from 8-12 years old
When a child is entering adulthood, they are very eager to find any evidence showing that you can treat them as young children. Say with confidence when you make the request (short sentences) and not around to see they are working that you said.
Please give the explanation why they should do so only if they are attitudes than text or arrogant attitude. Avoid the “war” demonstrates the power, when they listen to sad but still maintain arrangements to promote the form of debate or negotiation is that you should keep in mind.
Stage puberty (13-19 years)
You look back at the train guidance method for toddlers. Just playing. From the educational and behavior with a child at the age of teenagers richer to gently help them find out what is the right direction when you’re young ‘ability to self-digested.
You can build emotional acceptance by asking children about the comments from drinking at a party to the negligence doing homework and listen and not interrupt their judgments. Talking with children with respect and sincere desire to better understand the views of children as a sort of life. Your mission is to help children speak at the the feel of them on healthy living so well.
It is not easy to play “executive discipline” in the life of each child. With the support of responsible explore and implement responsible, you will help children towards a healthy life and success of an adult in the future.