Many parents complained that your child did not share even with the baby’s siblings. The following suggestions help children build the habit of sharing for your baby soon:
Toddler can not voluntarily share without mother prompted. This is not necessarily due to the selfishness of the baby because she was too young to understand the meaning of sharing in social relationships.
So you can teach your child to start sharing with a guide to how your baby do. Also, encourage your child’s spiritual harmony. Try to be patient with your child because of child forgetful and do not understand the value of sharing.
If your baby involved with other children, you need to prepare for the baby. Carrying more than a toy and asked child to play this stuff. Emphasize to the child that you expect and was glad when the child shared your toys.
Do not give your child a toy to play and recommendations: “This toys to own , not for anyone to borrow.” By doing this, you accidentally move the message not share your baby.
Reaction when baby shocked toys
If baby shock a toy form next the friend , you need to respond to the child immediately. Fast and severe, but not angry, you ask the child to return items to the victims: “You are not shock the friend’s toys.” Then remind your child that if you wants something else, you must:
– Wait your turn.
– Ask borrow toys and wait to be agreed.
If “war” triggered by the baby only a toy. Try to move the children to various activities to replace or terminate the playing of the baby at this time.
Teach baby borrowed items
If you and your baby go to someone’s home, you need to create habits for your baby, if baby wants anyone’s items, the child must ask a person. Even with the people in home should also maintain the habit of asking to borrow someone else’s map as desired. Do not tell her: “You can play Ben’s toys as long as you likes without having to ask.”
Do not teach the baby to say ‘no’ very short
Your baby may refuse if someone else wants the baby’s toys. You teach the child to avoid saying “no” dry, instead, guide babies to give reasons. Example: “Wait me a little” or “You can play but only in the house” .. .